[fix](shuffle) Fix local exchange dependency blocking (#38160)

## Proposed changes

pick #38151

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Author: Gabriel39

be/src/vec/runtime/vdata_stream_recvr.cpp

@@ -502,7 +502,7 @@ void VDataStreamRecvr::close() {
     }
     _is_closed = true;
     for (auto& it : _sender_to_local_channel_dependency) {
-        it->set_ready();
+        it->set_always_ready();
     }
     for (int i = 0; i < _sender_queues.size(); ++i) {
         _sender_queues[i]->close();