Chunks cannot be re-used across multiple `GetMatchedRowsAndPtrs` calls

[YangKeao]

Bug Report

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1. Minimal reproduce step (Required)

Run the benchmark BenchmarkHashJoinExec

2. What did you expect to see? (Required)

Allocating chunks will not cost too much resources.

3. What did you see instead (Required)

Allocating chunks takes a large percent of the total profiling.

Ref: #41081.