Too many unnecessary log for sync load when stats is not exists

[lilinghai]

Bug Report

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many sysbench tables and run read_write
tidb always print the log but the column pad stats is not collected.

[2024/11/28 11:56:52.620 +00:00] [WARN] [stats_syncload.go:412] ["fail to get hist meta for this histogram, possibly a deleted one"] [table_id=1285152] [hist_id=3] [is_index=false]
[2024/11/28 11:56:52.623 +00:00] [WARN] [stats_syncload.go:412] ["fail to get hist meta for this histogram, possibly a deleted one"] [table_id=1201116] [hist_id=3] [is_index=false]
[2024/11/28 11:56:52.624 +00:00] [WARN] [stats_syncload.go:412] ["fail to get hist meta for this histogram, possibly a deleted one"] [table_id=1306426] [hist_id=3] [is_index=false]
[2024/11/28 11:56:52.629 +00:00] [WARN] [stats_syncload.go:412] ["fail to get hist meta for this histogram, possibly a deleted one"] [table_id=1357610] [hist_id=3] [is_index=false]
[2024/11/28 11:56:52.634 +00:00] [WARN] [stats_syncload.go:412] ["fail to get hist meta for this histogram, possibly a deleted one"] [table_id=1236468] [hist_id=3] [is_index=false]
[2024/11/28 11:56:52.634 +00:00] [WARN] [stats_syncload.go:412] ["fail to get hist meta for this histogram, possibly a deleted one"] [table_id=1393198] [hist_id=3] [is_index=false]
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Release Version: v8.5.0-alpha-232-g924784aa3e
Edition: Community
Git Commit Hash: 924784a
Git Branch: HEAD
UTC Build Time: 2024-11-28 02:37:38
GoVersion: go1.23.3
Race Enabled: false

[winoros]

It's should be introduced by #53399 and #53298.
These prs make the status standing for no memory object for one column a complex status. In lite init, no memory object for one column means that the column has no stats.
In non-lite init+currently init, no memory object for the column can also mean that we haven't read it from memory.