statistics: Remove the ineffective dirty IDs from the row count cache (#56287)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #56287

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #55803
Problem Summary:

What changed and how does it work?

As I mentioned in the issue #55803 (comment), the main problem is that UpdateByID anciently updates the modify_time even when the dirty tables have not been updated.

But as @time-and-fate mentioned, the maintenance of the dirty table follows a best-effort approach, so it would be better to delete it entirely.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test
  • statistics: Remove the ineffective dirty IDs from the row count cache #56287 (comment)
• No need to test

  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

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修复 information_schema.tables 内存表信息不准确的问题
Fix the issue of inaccurate memory table information in `information_schema.tables`

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