Optimize the memory usage of lightning when importing parquet data format files

[zeminzhou]

Enhancement

Update xitongsys/parquet-go to optimize the memory usage of lightning.
Before update:

After update:

[lance6716]

there's another more official package https://pkg.go.dev/github.com/apache/arrow/go/parquet I don't know why we choose current one 😂

[zeminzhou]

It's really confusing, do you know why? /cc @D3Hunter

[D3Hunter]

It's really confusing, do you know why? /cc @D3Hunter

sadly no 😂